The United States and France are contrasting cultures yet embody similar sentiments that are highly valued in both countries. Here are some things I learned from going into lengthy conversations with French citizens. In France, children are raised with caution and to be aware of their surroundings. A result of that is that they tend to be less outgoing to strangers. In America, individuals are more welcoming to strangers and tend to constantly lend a hand. The French are timid in the fact that they fear outsiders are out to get them. Two completely different mind sights, neither right nor wrong. Another point is that in France there is freedom to protest without fear and possible retaliation. It tends to be more peaceful and respected. In America, protesting can be a frowned upon activity and not many positive ventures come from it. Thirdly, Americans seem from what I have gathered more eager and friendly towards tourists. French people, as a French citizen, relayed to me that tourism is despised, as people tend to overly romanticize and create false narratives about their hometown, especially that of Paris. In America, tourism is not only acceptable but a norm.
Americans work to live, and schedules tend to be jammed packed each day. The French realize how short life is and they create space each day to have walks and lunches with friends, peers, co-workers, and family. Similarly, French and Americans are dog people and love outdoor activities when given the chance. Both countries tend to constantly rush to places, as if there’s a timer waiting to go off. Though French people seem to be able to find relaxation easier compared to Americans. Both countries have a mixture of cuisines, endless opportunities to explore, and the ability to find one’s niche.
– Cooper, SPC France High School Study Abroad Program, March 2023